It began as a tickle in the back of his throat, which turned into a cough that just wouldn’t go away. Musical notes he’d reached easily in the past were suddenly hard to hit.
“My voice started feeling weird,” said Pelotonia rider Alex Kip, 23.
This was a huge deal for the Gahanna resident, whose voice was his future. It was April 2010, and Alex was a senior in the prestigious Department of Musical Theatre at the University of Michigan.
Graduates are known on Broadway as the Michigan Mafia and “there’s not a show on Broadway that doesn’t have at least one Michigan person,” Alex said. His plan was to head to Broadway after he graduated and join the mafia and audition his way onto a show.
So this tickle and cough were a huge – and very frustrating – deal.
“Then I started wheezing and finally I had chest X-rays taken,” Alex said. “They found a large mass pushing against and paralyzing one of my vocal chords.”
The mass was cancerous; Alex had non-Hodgkin lymphoma.
The past year has been filled with ups and downs, chemo treatments, the support of family and friends … and a lot of determination and optimism. His bout with cancer has also changed Alex’s perspective on life. Before cancer, all he thought and dreamed about was singing on Broadway.
“Singing was always such an important part of my identity, but this has changed my perspective on life; I feel so much more alive,” he said. “And it has maybe shifted my career aspirations and will ultimately lead me to where I’m supposed to be. Now, I’m passionate about giving back to the community and trying to meet with people, especially (children and teens) who are going through this and helping them cope with it.”
Alex’s chemo treatments started immediately, the first two in Ann Arbor, then at The James after he graduated and returned home. While his Michigan friends were in Manhattan, auditioning for shows, Alex was at The James, with powerful drugs dripping from an IV into his arm and bloodstream.
“For three days after, I’d feel sick and vomit and then I’d feel totally fine and be back in the gym and on my bike,” he said. Then it was time for the weekly round of chemo, and another three days of feeling sick.”
The plan was to follow Alex’s chemo treatments with radiation … and then a stem-cell transplant. However, tests indicated his cancerous mass had shrunk substantially, but “my cancer output was still a little high, there were still cancerous cells,” he said.
His doctors opted for another round of chemo, which Alex is currently in the midst of. This will be followed by radiation and then the transplant.
Keeping his body strong has been a key component of Alex’s battle – and training for Pelotonia was a big part of this.
“In my mind this is the most important thing you can do for yourself, physically and mentally,” he said. “If I can ride my bike for 20 or 30 miles or go into the gym and lift weights for an hour, this tells me I’m doing all right. In my mind, when I do this, it’s my way of saying ‘screw you cancer.’”
The Friday night before Pelotonia was his 23rd birthday and the opening ceremonies were a birthday party for Alex and his big team of supporters, including his parents, Cindy and Nick, and sister Liz, a student at the University of Kentucky.
“It was amazing to see all these people come together, 4,000 people,” Alex said. “And you could tell it was so personal for everyone.”
Alex started off riding with his friend and training partner Erin Scott, and also rode with with Kate Harlow.
“We had met during a training ride, but hadn’t seen each other since,” Alex said of his mid-ride encounter with Kate. “We started talking and rode together.”
The two are now dating.
Alex still hopes to be Broadway bound when his treatments are over … and when he gets there he will be stronger and more determined than ever, but with a new perspective on his career and future and a desire to give back to others.
“The support from my family and friends has been amazing and this has definitely been a spiritual journey,” he said. “I’ve had to really confront it and be open with people about what’s going on in my life and people have opened up to me, and to receive that love back has been special.
“I want to change people’s perception of cancer. It’s not a life sentence. It’s hard to get through, but there’s a lot to be learned from this.”