Barbara Knapic and Suzanne Kaszar’s friendship didn’t get off to the best of starts – thanks to a devious, double-booking Casanova. It was the 1970s and the two were journalism majors at Kent State, but had never really met. And then…
“This guy (yet another journalism major) asked me out for coffee and I said sure,” Suzanne said. “About an hour before we’re supposed to meet, he says something’s come up, can we reschedule.”

Suzanne (top) and Barbara. They didn't hit if off at the start, but soon after became as close as sisters
Suzanne said OK – and a little while later wandered over to the student center, where she saw the guy having coffee with Barbara! Let’s just say she wasn’t happy with either of them.
Months later, Barbara and Suzanne found themselves rooming together in Chicago during a journalism convention … and reluctantly had no choice but to finally get to know one another a little better.
“And we haven’t stopped talking,” Suzanne said.
“In 35 years we’ve never run out of things to talk about,” Barbara added. “She shares my bizarre sense of humor, she’s a sports nut like I am and most importantly she’s the kindest person I know.”
Recently, these long-time best friends went through the ups and downs of Suzanne’s battle with a rare form of cancer. There was a time when the outcome didn’t look good, but the two gained strength and hope from one another, were honest about what could happen, put their wacky senses of humor to good use and kept on going. Suzanne is now in remission.
“Barb was there every step of the way for me,” said Suzanne, who is single, adding her friend either commuted from her home in Wooster or bunked with her when she was in the hospital for long stretches of time. “She came in and took over my life, in the best possible way. If she hadn’t been there I don’t think I would have cared if I lived or died; I wouldn’t have had a reason to keep going.”

Without Barbara's support, Suzanne (R) said she wouldn't have made it through her battle with cancer
In recognition of her support of Suzanne, Barbara was recently awarded a Stefanie’s Champion award from the Stafanie Spielman Fund for Breast Cancer Research, which raises money for cancer research at Ohio State’s Comprehensive Cancer Center and The James.
Last year, Barbara rode in Pelotonia, while Suzanne served as a volunteer – this year they’ll switch roles, as Suzanne will ride and Barbara will be a volunteer.
“I was overwhelmed by it last year,” Barbara said of Pelotonia. “It was amazing to think about Suzanne and all the other people riding where were dealing with or had dealt with cancer. They are the strongest people I have ever seen.”
Barbara grew up in Rittman, Suzanne in Dorset.
“We found out we had so much in common,” Suzanne said of their first real conversation in Chicago. “We’re both the second of four children, her dad’s a doctor, mine’s a vet, we both grew up in small towns, we both loved high school, we loved the same kinds of books and music.”
Barbara eventually went on to law school and is a partner in Oldham Kramer in Akron, where her specialty is worker’s compensation. Suzanne earned a master’s degree from Ohio State in labor relations and human resources and is a communications and political action consultant for the Ohio Education Association.
Barbara remarried seven years ago, but not before her intended, Chuck, passed the Suzanne test.

That's Chuck in the middle, between Suzanne (L) and Barb (R) - and thank goodness he passed the Suzaane Test!
“He had to pass muster with Suzanne,” Barbara said, adding Chuck did. Whew! “(Suzanne and I) had planned out our retirement including the rocking chairs on the porch – and he had to earn his spot.”
In January 2008, Suzanne just couldn’t seem to get over what she thought was a cold – and went to see her doctor, who put her on antibiotics, which didn’t work.
“I had all kinds of tests and scans, everything but a chest X-ray, even thought I kept asking for a chest X-ray and I kept getting sicker and sicker,” she said.
She lost about 40 pounds, had a rash and terrible night sweats – and kept getting worse. Finally, Barbara took her to her parent’s retirement home in Florida for a little rest and warm weather.
“What I didn’t know until later was her father (the retired family doctor) took one look at me and told Barb I had lymphoma,” Suzanne said. “I was so sick I couldn’t walk 10 feet without having to rest.”
Barbara got her friend an appointment with a pulmonologist she knew in Columbus, who immediately took X-rays of Suzanne’s chest – and told her to get to a hospital right away if not sooner. Suzanne initially went to Riverside Hospital, where doctors determined she had a rare form of Non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma.
“They told me they were going to start chemo right away and I may or may not respond and if I didn’t I needed to get my affairs in order, that I would only have a couple of weeks,” Suzanne said. “I was scared, but by this time I was so sick I didn’t care. Both my parents had died recently and I thought it was time to be with my folks.”
Barbara refused to give up on her friend and spent the next few weeks with her in the hospital. The chemo began to work and Suzanne – who had been constantly sweating and was so uncomfortable she couldn’t even lie down to sleep – slowly began to feel better.
She transferred to The James – and the care of Dr. Pierluigi Porcu, one of the country’s top lymphoma experts.
“After the third round of chemo they came and told me the tumors that were the size of a man’s fist had shrunk to the size of peas,” she said.
Suzanne did so well she was eventually cleared for a bone marrow transplant, which she had in October 2008. So far, so good, although the possibility of her cancer returning is something Suzanne – and most cancer survivors – think and worry about.
“We were honest with each other,” Suzanne said of her many long talks with Barbara during her treatment. “We knew the statistics and that they were against me even making it six months. But the funny part was we laughed as much as we cried and I think you have to, otherwise you just can’t make it through everything. We did a lot of soul searching and she said ‘I don’t want to go on without you’ and I said ‘you might have to.’”
Barbara said she was inspired by her friend’s battle. In addition to riding – she will also volunteer, on Friday before she rides – and on Sunday after she rides the 50-mile route the day before.
“I’ve never been in a situation where I had to face my own mortality,” Barbara said. “And to do it with, I won’t use the word courage, because Suzanne hates that because she says you just do what you have to do – so I’ll use the word strength.”
Her strength is what helped Suzanne ride 50 miles at the first Pelotonia ride – the longest ride of her life by far up.
“I was scared when I started,” she said, adding that by the end of the ride, “I didn’t want it to ever end. I was flying; I was so excited I was up for a week after it.”
10 Things About Barbara and Suzanne…
Favorite ride:
Barbara: The back roads of Wayne County
Suzanne: Pelotonia
Dream ride:
Barbara: Pacific Coast Highway
Suzanne: A beach somewhere
Current Pelotonia bike:
Barbara: A silver-and-black Cannondale
Suzanne: A Schwinn Super Sport GS
Dream bike:
Barbara: I have my dream bike
Suzanne: A custom-made bike
Favorite movie:
Barbara: Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood
Suzanne: Out of Africa
Favorite TV show:
Barbara: Beanie and Cecil
Suzanne: China Beach
Favorite book:
Barbara: Little Women
Suzanne: Tennessee: Cry of the Heart/an Intimate Memoir of Tennessee Williams
Favorite musician/group:
Barbara: The Eagles
Suzanne: Gustav Holst
Favorite athlete:
Barbara: Chris Spielman
Suzanne: Babe Didrikson Zaharias
Favorite post-ride meal:
Barbara: Chuck’s walleye fish fry
Suzanne: popcorn and watermelon